• Kaecey McCormick

Gratitude: Thank you, practice pieces

Updated: Mar 3


This week, as we celebrate Thanksgiving in America, I like to take time to think about things I'm grateful for in different areas of my life - including writing.


Today, I thought I'd share a story about becoming grateful. I haven't always appreciated the value of my practice pieces that don't "go" anywhere other than on the shelf in my writing journals. Here's how that changed:


I started playing the piano when I was seven, something I would do nearly every day for the ten years that followed.


My sisters also started lessons that year, but only I continued to play. As I improved over time, my mother often told me I was talented and that she enjoyed listening to me play.


In truth, I lacked talent in the way she meant (a natural aptitude for playing music). In fact, the better I got at playing the piano, the more obvious this became — to me and my teachers. My mother, however, never stopped believing I was a natural at the piano. Love you, Mom!


I took piano lessons for ten years, and I played or practiced nearly every day. As I got older, my teachers went from young music majors in college working for a few extra dollars to professional musicians who took the art of teaching seriously.

My last piano teacher was a matronly and proper woman who always wore long shirts with stockings and blouses in a time when it seemed everyone wore jeans. She kept her hair styled in a way that reminded me of old movies, up and twisted, shellacked.


To become her student, I had to audition and write an essay. To stay her student, I had to take part in monthly performances, turn in monthly composer reports, and show progress at a rate acceptable to her.


She required I play for the Piano Guild, which meant suffering through evaluations I dreaded knowing that unlike my academic evaluations, which came back with comments like “Exceeds Expectations,” my Guild evaluations said things like, “Needs Improvement” with a list of areas to work on.


Still, I kept playing. I’d always loved music, and there was something about making it out of thin air that enchanted me. While practicing was, at times, painful, I enjoyed the pay off when I mastered a song, measure by measure.

More than that, though, I loved the way practicing piano allowed me to play with the music. I knew I should play according to the way the composer wrote it, but I enjoyed changing the tempo, creating repeats, shifting the key. I liked to make up silly lyrics to classical songs.


I couldn’t do any of this at my lessons or during my monthly performances. But when I was practiced, I could play my way.


Most of the time, though, I thought of my years of practicing piano as a waste. I'd never be good enough to play on stage or even as the church pianist. I felt bad for all the money and time my parents spent on it, and I knew deep down that the end of my piano-playing road drew close.


It wasn’t until the summer before my senior year of high school, that my years of piano playing paid off, though not in the way my mother may have imagined when she started me with lessons ten years earlier.


That summer, my piano teacher and I had a separate meeting to discuss my music plans after high school. It was obvious to both of us I did not have what it takes to apply to music schools, like many of her other students my age.


“Kaecey,” she began. Something in her voice sharpened my attention, causing me to sit up straighter. “You aren't the best pianist in your class.”

My stomach hardened. I knew this. Of course. I’d frustrated both of us with my playing and scores at the Guild many times.


But the blunt statement was still difficult to process because instead of what she said, I heard, “You have zero talent and are a waste.”


She must have seen that reaction in my face because she rushed on. “But,” she said, taking my hand and patting it, "you have something else. You are the best at practice, and it will serve you well. Don’t give up piano. Practice is the point.”


I didn’t understand then what she meant. I believed she felt sorry for me causing her to throw some token praise my way, like my "Friendliest Teammate" award from soccer.


I stayed with my lessons that year, but my heart wasn’t in it. I stopped playing after I graduated from high school. Sometimes I'd sit and toy with an old song I'd memorized, but over time they faded to piecemeal fragments.


But her words, the practice is the point, floated through my mind long after my years of playing piano ended. Yet it wasn’t until after becoming a writer that their meaning became clear.

I was re-organizing my large, walk-in closet where I kept a writing secretary. On the desk’s shelves collecting dust sat the journals and notebooks I’d filled steadily over the years. I pulled them down and set them on the floor, thinking about what to do with them.


I’d filled so many pages with practice pieces and scenes from prompts and half-formed poems and bits of memoir and brainstorming lists and observations. Looking at my stack of books, I felt torn.


On the one hand, I was thrilled — proud, even — at the amount of writing I’d done. Seeing my practice laid out before me, I knew I’d done what I set out to do — write.


On the other hand, I felt sad and embarrassed. I wrote nearly every day, but why bother? I didn't know what to do with the bits and pieces I'd created, and I wondered if I'd wasted years producing nothing.


I read through some older practice notebooks, then some newer. While all the writing sounded like me, I saw development and growth. I could spot why I’d had trouble with some practice pieces, where the poems needed revision, why a scene didn’t seem to go anywhere.


I laid back on the floor and studied the ceiling, taking in deep breaths as I thought about the writing on the floor next to me.


My teacher’s words came to me, so clearly I could almost read them on the off-white paint above me. “Practice is the point.”


It felt like I'd been released from a prison I didn’t know was holding me. I felt free. And I felt renewed as a writer.


The practice of writing fueled me. It helped me work out my thoughts and emotions. It was with me on good days and bad. It fostered my growth as a person and a writer. It was where I played freely with words and tried new things.

It didn’t need to “go” anywhere because it was functioning perfectly as it was. The practice was the point.


I flipped back through the years in my mind to that day with my teacher. I thought about how different things would be for me had I kept practicing after high school. How much I would have enjoyed playing Christmas carols during the holidays and soothing myself on a rough day with my favorite pieces. How my girls would have grown up with my music, albeit imperfect, in their memories. How I could have continued to make my mother happy by playing her favorites when she visited.


I had made a mistake in giving up the piano completely. And I grieved for those lost opportunities for a moment.


Then I thought about my writing practice and decided I wouldn’t make the same mistake again. I wouldn’t dismiss the progress I’d made, the pleasure writing brought me, the joy writing with my girls brought me, the fun I had teaching writing and fostering the growth of the young writers I worked with.


I understood. The practice is the point.


This week as you write, I hope these words encourage you and help you see your "practice" pieces in a new light. And during this week of gratitude, I hope you can find a way to be grateful for what practice brings.


Happy Thanksgiving!



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